HAVE YOU EVR FACED REJECTION?

REJECTION Have you ever been rejected at one time or the other? Has mum ever looked into your eye and told you that your birth was a mistake? Has Dad ever told you he's not even sure if he's really your Father? Has your sister ever told you that she's more beautiful than you or your teacher told you that you just can't make it above average and most especially a point my write up will always focus on... Has a guy ever looked into your eye and told you that you're so fat and he wondered why he ever asked you out in the first place? Or rather, you don’t deserve him. Has a girl ever looked into your eye and told you… Is this what your mates are giving their girlfriends? The questions are endless. However, if your case was not mentioned, I leave a blank space for you to fill it in........................................................................................................................... BOTTOM LINE, you've been rejected at one time or the other. Someone once said a lady walked into a room full of girls with her sitted, looked into her eyes, and in the presence of everybody said..."I just hate you." If you were the one, what would your response be? People at one time or the other might have said some nasty things to your face or behind you which is not necessarily because you have some character flaws but because they either don’t just like you or are not comfortable with your confident and lively personality. Some sadists are not just happy around lively people. One thing I want to make clear here is that no matter the bad compliments you might have gotten from people or you still get on a daily basis, always have it at the back of your mind that the problem is not with you but with the person. People can think and say what they like which you can in no way control. Even God cannot control our thoughts and actions! So, what's the way out? 1. Get rid of every negative mindset that might have been built in you over the years and the best bet is eating the word of God! It works like tonic. 2. If possible, try to avoid being around people that never have something good to say about you. It’s healthier to stay around people that celebrate you. 3. Take a journey inwards and discover your uniqueness. You’d fall in love with the real you when you find yourself. 4. Always have it written in your heart that regardless of the external and negative situations and utterances, you’d let it stay outside and not come into you. Never brood over it. Dispose it as fast as you can and replace it with what God says about you. Remember, he's the only one that loves us genuinely and dares to watch our backs even when we are not. KEEP THIS... You're the best of your kind. I love you and how much more God?